Feeling Valued at Work

"Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others."  Philippians 2:3-4 (ESV)

 

 Over the last few days, I have asked a number of people, “What makes you feel valued in your workplace?” It seems to come down to three things: Trust, Respect and Input.

 Trust – “assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something.” (Merriam-Webster)

Trust is the building block for transformational leadership.  Leaders want their followers to trust them, but to gain trust one must first prove himself to be trustworthy. One way to build trustworthiness is to place trust in the other person. The more trust I show you, the more I increase the likelihood that you will trust me. Delegation of responsibility is a huge way to build trust. Sharing of information and sharing personal prayer requests are also trust builders.

Respect –“a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.” (Oxford Dictionary)  

The simplest recognition of the other person’s experience, contributions or individual accomplishments can go a very long way toward making the person feel respected. Another simple way to show respect is to put down the smart-aleck phone and give the person your undivided attention. 

 Input – “advice or opinions that help someone make a decision.” (Merriam-Webster).

This is about feeling you have the opportunity to share Information and Insights.  Being given the opportunity to share these three I's creates a feeling of empowerment. 

 

Information x Input x Insight = Empowerment  ( I³ = E ).  

 

The word “empowerment” is often confused with delegation of authority.  People do not necessarily have to be given a delegated authority, however, to feel empowered.  The opportunity to give input up line with absolute confidence that they will be heard makes people feel they actually make a difference. This is more than just having the opportunity to influence decisions. It has to do with simply being heard, knowing that your manager has an open ear and will give attention to what you have to share--even if your idea is not implemented.

The ability to give input also helps to build trust that leads to respect. Of course, if a person's input is repeatedly rejected outright, then that becomes a trust-buster, making the person feel disrespected and devalued. 

 

All of this boils down to helping people feel that they are persons of worth, that they are known and valued for who they are and not just for what they do. Who you are amounts to much more than just what you do in your job at work. 

Hint to the Leader:

Imagine what your organization would look like if leaders would go out of their way to demonstrate a genuine value for every worker at every level throughout the organization.  What could you do to start building such an organization right now?   What could you do to show that you are genuinely TRI-ing? (Remember, Trust, Respect, Input.)

 

Hint to the Follower:

Even if you are not feeling valued at work, you can make others feel valued. Consider starting your own campaign by showing respect for your manager or supervisor. Offer your input with an attitude of helping.  By the way, would your family members say they feel valued by you? Would they say you are TRI-ing?

© Dr. Larry N. Gay, October 16, 2015